Meet Au Pairs: Ultimate Interview Question Guide

The interview is a crucial step in finding the right fit for your family. To make the best decision, you need to go beyond the basics. Here are the key questions and topics to cover to ensure a successful match.

Motivation and Expectations

• Why did you decide to become an au pair?

• What do you expect from your stay? Ideally, what would a perfect day look like for you?

• Why did you choose our specific country?

• Can you imagine yourself feeling homesick? How would you handle it?

• Does anyone in your family or circle of friends have experience being an au pair?

Childcare Experience

• What exact experience do you have with children (e.g., babysitting, internships, younger siblings)?

• What do you like most about working with children?

• Which activities would you like to plan for our kids?

• How would you handle a situation where a child doesn't want to listen or is having a tantrum?

Personal & Lifestyle

• Do you smoke? (Be clear about your house rules here).

• Do you have any allergies or special dietary requirements?

• Do you have a driving licence? How much actual driving experience do you have?

• How are your cooking skills? Would you be comfortable preparing simple meals for the children?

• What are your hobbies? (Shared interests can help build a bond).

Tips for Success

To give the candidate a fair chance, ensure you provide clear information too:

• Provide a Schedule: Draft a typical weekly plan with duties and free time.

• Be Clear on Costs: Clarify pocket money, insurance, and language course payments upfront.

• Trust Your Gut: Use the video call to see if there is a personal click between the au pair and your family.