10 Essential Questions to Ask Your Potential Au Pair

A thoughtful interview helps both sides feel confident. Use these questions to learn about experience, expectations, and daily routines before you decide.

The 10 questions

• What motivated you to become an au pair?

• Tell us about your childcare experience.

• How would you handle a tantrum or difficult behavior?

• What activities do you enjoy doing with children?

• How do you feel about our family rules and schedule?

• Which languages do you speak and at what level?

• Do you have any dietary restrictions or allergies?

• How would you handle an emergency?

• What are your goals for your au pair stay?

• What questions do you have for us?

What to listen for

Look for clear examples, honesty about strengths and limits, and curiosity about your family. Alignment on expectations matters as much as experience.