Language Courses for Au Pairs
How to choose language classes that fit schedules and goals.
Sophie Martin
Sophie specializes in cultural exchange and language learning.
11 02 2026
6 min read

One of the primary goals of the au pair program is cultural exchange, and learning the local language is the key to unlocking that culture. Attending a language course isn't just about grammar rules; it's about making friends, understanding your host family better, and boosting your future career prospects.
Why attending a language course is essential
Even if you already have basic knowledge of the language, attending a formal course offers several unique benefits:
Social Circle: It is the easiest way to meet other au pairs and international students in your area.
Integration: Understanding local slang and customs helps you feel at home faster.
Certification: You can earn an official certificate (like TOEFL, DELF, or TestDaF) which looks great on a CV.
Who pays for the language course?
This is one of the most common questions. The general rule is that the au pair pays for their own language course. However, there are significant exceptions depending on the host country:
USA: The host family is legally required to contribute up to $500 toward your education requirement (6 academic credits).
Germany: Host families must contribute €50 per month toward the language course, totaling €600 for a standard year.
France: The host family must enroll the au pair in a course, though the au pair usually pays the fees unless agreed otherwise.
Other Countries: While not mandatory, many families voluntarily contribute to the cost as a 'perk' to attract great candidates. Always discuss this during the interview!
Finding the right school
You have several options depending on your budget and learning style:
Public Institutions: Often the most affordable choice. Look for 'Volkshochschule' in Germany, 'Escuela Oficial de Idiomas' in Spain, or community colleges in the USA/UK.
Private Language Schools: These offer more intensive courses and smaller class sizes but are more expensive.
Universities: Many universities offer courses specifically for foreigners (e.g., 'Français Langue Étrangère' in France).
Online Courses: Flexible options like Lingoda allow you to study from home, though we recommend in-person classes for the social aspect.
Balancing work and study
Your host family must schedule your working hours to allow you to attend classes. In most countries, language course hours count as 'free time' rather than work time, but the schedule must be compatible. We recommend discussing the class timetable with your host parents before paying the registration fee.
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