What is an au pair?
An au pair is usually a young adult from another country who lives with a host family, helps with light childcare and child-related household tasks, and joins family life as part of a cultural exchange. Au pairs are not full-time nannies, cleaners, nurses, or domestic employees unless local law specifically treats the role that way.
Core idea
The au pair role works best when the family needs light, scheduled help and the candidate wants language learning, travel, and family immersion. It should not be used to cover a full-time childcare vacancy.
Typical au pair duties
School runs, simple meals, homework supervision, play, and bedtime help.
Light child-related household tasks such as tidying toys or preparing school bags.
Occasional babysitting when it fits the legal programme and agreed weekly schedule.
What an au pair is not
A full-time nanny with sole-charge professional responsibility.
A housekeeper, cleaner, nurse, or elder-care professional.
A way around visa, minimum-wage, tax, or employment rules.
Follow-up questions
Does an au pair live with the family?
Usually yes. Live-in accommodation and meals are part of the normal au pair model, though exact rules vary by country.
Can an au pair care for babies?
Only where the candidate has suitable experience and the programme allows it. Many families need a nanny or newborn specialist for infant care.